A Few Keys To Help Your Girlfriend Or Wife To Get Into Anal Sex
All women are not cut from the same cloth, but the ideas below definitely apply to most women, and people in general.
Is your girlfriend or wife not interested enough to try anal sex with you yet? Here are three pointers you should think about.
#1 – You need to focus on her pleasure. Why do you want to have anal sex? Take a moment answer that for yourself. If it’s mostly for your own pleasure, what that’s going to do is create resistance in her. You don’t want resistance, you want rapport. Imagine how much more rapport you’ll have with her, and how much easier getting into anal sex will be if she knows you’re all about pleasing her…especially when it come to anal play.
Anal sex can be absolutely incredible for her, totally mind blowing. And it’s that that you need to be thinking about and make your focus. Who could resist that, right?
Plus if it’s not about her pleasure for you, you won’t be “getting” her. You need to be very aware of how she’s responding to you on all levels, physically, emotionally, etc and make adjustments.
#2 – Build trust. A lot of resistance many women have to anal sex is simply fear, mostly fear that it’s going to hurt. And here’s the deal, if you pay close enough attention to her, go slow enough for her, stop if she need you to, and generally ease her into it, it won’t hurt, it’ll be great.
But she needs to know that you’ll do all of that for her. She needs totally trust you. And that trust has to be built up, simply put.
#3 – She needs to feel respected and honored. There is sometimes this idea that anal sex is somehow a dirty act. And that somehow she’ll be less respectable if she has anal sex.
This comes in part from the way that anal sex is usually portrayed. What you often see is a man kind of “subjecting” a woman to anal sex, and not so much “pleasing her” with anal sex or sharing anal pleasure with her.
Imagine how different it would be if the man want to share anal sex with her because he wants to please her, because he revels in the entirety of her body and her feminine self, and because he wants the both of them to feel the depth the special and intimate connection lovers can have through anal sex.
Do you think would be more appealing to most women? You bet.
To your pleasure…