Should You Use Anal Desensitizers?

Have you seen the products that promise to desensitize your anus to make anal sex easier? They come in creams and gels, and what happens is you put it on and it makes the area numb. Do they work? Yeah they do. But here’s my advice. If you use them, be very careful! You see, [...]

My First Anal Orgasm

I want to tell you the story of my very first anal orgasm…it was a wonderful experience. My first anal orgasm happened when I was completely alone, and it may surprise you. I was about 20, and living alone at the time.  I was single, and I hadn’t had sex for awhile at the time. [...]

Making Anal Sex Pain Free Part One

One of my readers asked me how she can have orgasms from anal sex if she’s worried about experiencing pain. This is a great question so, I thought I would answer part of this for everyone. Now assuming you’re using plenty of lube, and assuming you’re with a partner you can trust, and assuming you’re [...]

Anal Sex And The Truth Of The Body

“He (or she) who realizes the truth of the body can then come to know the truth of the universe.” – Rat Nas Tantra Ever heard the saying “As above, so below”?  Or what about “The macrocosm is in the microcosm”.  These concepts were both taught by the great Hermes of ancient Egypt. The idea [...]

Surrender

“The will to surrender and the will to self mastery are the head and the tail of the same snake” – C.S. Hyat Gentle readers, surrender lies at the heart of being fully orgasmic, knowing who you are, and being satisfied with life. So many of us go through our lives unsatisfied, always craving, looking [...]

The Healing Power Of Anal Sex

In this article I’m going to talk about the power of anal sex to help us let go of anger, be free from frustration and heal old wounds in general. Have you ever wondered about the power of our sex lives to help us overcome emotional baggage and other issues? We all know that sex [...]

Tantra, Anal Sex And Kundalini

Would it surprise you that mystics in India have practiced anal sex for thousands of years as part of their spiritual training? It’s true. An ancient tradition in Tantra teaches that the anus is a highly erogenous zone, which is directly linked to the base chakra.  And within the base chakra resides the kundalini, the [...]

Book Review – “The Surrender: An Erotic Memoir” by Toni Bentley

The Surrender: An Erotic Memoir

This is, in my opinion, one of the more important books dealing with anal sex that you can buy or read. In The Surrender: An Erotic Memoir Toni Bentley shares with us how, through anal sex, she experienced more than simply sexual bliss.  She experienced first hand the metaphysical  state of complete surrender. Through being [...]