Anal Sex Secrets

Do you want to make your lover (or yourself) have orgasms from anal sex?

There is a lot I have to say about this, but I think you’ll find the following approach to be a hell of a lot of fun, and I guarantee it works.

What you want to do is “tie” your lover’s orgasms to the sensation, and the idea, of being anally penetrated and stimulated.   In hypnosis and NLP this process is called “anchoring”.  You get your lover’s (or your own) body to connect anal stimulation and or penetration to the state of orgasm.

So here’s what you do.  First off, you don’t want to be stimulating your lover’s ass directly (especially penetration) when she or he is not allready really aroused.  Get her aroused first, wether that means good old fashioned lovemaking, or oral sex, or, touching, teasing, fantasy, all of the above or whatever.  The longer the better, really build it up.

When she’s really hot, really worked up and maybe 3/4 of the way towards orgasm, only then start to tease her ass.  Save the penetration though.

Keep building her arousal while you tease her ass on the outside with your fingers, a toy or whatever feels the most fun.  And then when she’s right about to come, only then penetrate her (the first few times you do this, you probably only want to penetrate her a tiny bit, very shallow).

If you do this consistently, (and this is key) every time you have sex, she can start to come from anal penetration alone in as little as a couple of days to a couple of weeks, though it’s possible for it to take longer.

Don’t become goal oriented though.  Enjoy the process, be absorbed in  every moment.

This works equally well for men as well as women by the way.

As always, to your pleasure.