Anal Sex Secrets

Have you seen the products that promise to desensitize your anus to make anal sex easier?

They come in creams and gels, and what happens is you put it on and it makes the area numb.

Do they work? Yeah they do. But here’s my advice.

If you use them, be very careful!

You see, the anus is naturally very sensitive.  Some doctors say the anus even has more nerve endings than the vagina. It’s partly this sensitivity that makes anal sex potentially feel so good.

If you ‘desensitize’ yourself, you’re missing out on part of the exquisite pleasure.

But even more importantly it’s also a delicate part of our bodies.  When you engage in any anal play, you need to pay close attention to your body.  It can be easy to damage your delicate skin if you or your partner get real excited, start getting really vigorous, take it too fast etc.

If you’re feeling less or not enough, you can easily hurt yourself.

So you need to feel.  You need to know what’s going on down there.  For your own well being and the health of your butt.

But besides, the whole point of anal sex is to feel it.  If you are going to be numb you might as well not be there.  In fact, the whole point of any sex is to really feel it, isn’t it?

So my advice, don’t do anything that makes you feel less, or God forbid, numb.  Instead, immerse yourself in the feelings, gobble up every bit of the experience.  In everything, and certainly in anal sex.

To your pleasure.