Have you ever wondered about the power of our sex lives to help us overcome emotional baggage and other issues?

We all know that sex is powerful. And we’ve all (at least I hope) experienced times when we’ve had sex that helped us overcome or deal with some major issue we were struggling with.

Anal sex has its own special healing and transforming power. Part of the reason for this is the way the body stores emotion and emotional baggage.

All memory is stored throughout the body. Trauma, pain, etc, and all negative emotions are stored in the body as tension.

If you release the tension, the negative emotion or pain goes away as well.

Obviously a lot of negative crap gets stored in the ass.  Having anal sex is a great way to massage out that tension and get rid of all that emotional baggage, whatever it is.

Ever had a gnarly knot or cramp in your neck or maybe high in your back around your shoulder blades?  I have. Did you go to a masseuse and maybe have it worked out? The whole reason it hurt was simply tension. When you relax that muscle, let go of the tension that pain or discomfort is gone. And that was the masseuse helped you to do.

When she puts pressure on that gnarly spot that was causing you pain, in that moment you can’t focus on anything else in the world but the pressure on that spot. That focus kind of causes you to let go of everything else at least for that moment. You become very present.  And that pressure, kneading and massaging it forces the muscle to relax.

And here’s an important point to get; when the muscle relaxes you’re not just letting go of that muscle tension, but the issue itself that was causing the tension.

So it is with anal sex. We often hold so much tension in our asses. Tension that isn’t just tension, but some issue. Anger maybe, stress, frustration, repression, even sadness or… you name it.

And just like the masseuse on your neck or back, with someone caressing, massaging, and pressing into and penetrating your ass, you can let go of anything else but that moment, that experience and sensation. And as you relax, as you let go and open up your ass to more and more pressure and penetration, at the same time you’re letting go of whatever emotions and issues you were holding onto.

And so, anal sex, anal play and penetration can be a wildy pleasurable and powerful way to let go, to relax and to heal.

I’ve only scratched the surface here, there’s a lot more to say, so expect follow up articles to this.

I hope you got something of pleasure, value and maybe something unexpected from this post.  Please leave any comments or questions. I’m always happy to get them!

It’s true.

An ancient tradition in Tantra teaches that the anus is a highly erogenous zone, which is directly linked to the base chakra.  And within the base chakra resides the kundalini, the “serpent of fire”.

The kundalini is a coiled energy, that in most people kind of “sits” there, unawakened.  When awakened this energy can be channeled up the spine, igniting and opening all the chakras. This will give you much more power, insight, clarity, focus, sense of purpose, even a greater sense of peace and love. Yes it will effect every part of your life. It is in fact a necessary step on the road to enlightenment.

There are many methods in yoga to arouse the kundalini, such as rythmicly relaxing and contracting of the anus, bouncing on the ground on your butt, etc.

Ah but Tantra…There is a tantric method of arousing the kundalini which is powerful, fast and direct. Anal sex.

There is a thin gland that resides within the anal cavity, the tip of which ends just a few inches inside the anus.  This is, according to tantric teachings, the kundalini gland.

Anyone who has ever had sex knows that there is tremendous energy raised and released during sex. Think about the excitement, the heat, the sweating, movement, thrusting, clawing, moaning, etc, etc.  And think about orgasm? Tremendous explosions, sometimes nuclear right? And guys, think about how much energy explodes through your penis when you come?

Imagine this energy going right into, awakening and merging with your lovers kundalini, nourishing it and setting it ablaze…

And it’s not only the pure ‘energy’ of sex that can awaken the kundalini. There is tremendous power, energy, in semen. Think about it, it’s literally the stuff of life, isn’t it? When the man ejaculates, the energy, and nutrients of the semen can be absorbed by the woman. It will nourish the kundalini gland and the chakra itself…

As you can imagine, there is a whole world more to say about anal sex, sex, kundalini, awakening, etc.

Stay tuned dear readers…